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Where Have All The Men Gone?
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Where Have All The Men Gone
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Where have all the men gone? I see plenty of woman, youth and children, but fewer and fewer men.
Who will guard the camp?
Who will teach the youth and children?
Who will provide for family, the elderly, the disabled, the future of the people?
Who will fight the battles and right the wrongs?
I see what are supposed to be ment. They look like men, but sadly, they act like the youngest of our children. Instead of children’s laughter or tears, I hear these men children crying that they did not receive their due, receive enough praise, be fed when they decided they hungered, have what they desired.
I hear the whining, complaining, cursing, bemoaning, gossiping, and aggravation coming from them. I witness others being embarrassed, hurt, pained, torments by their actions. I watch our Elders praying for a little peace, our woman beg for a little comfort, our children become confused.
How are the children and youth to learn anything from men whose temper tantrums and actions show them to be children themselves? Something is wrong, very wrong. Something here can do more to destroy our people that all the other problems combined. If we allow this to continue, we will loose another generation. They will not know how a man is supposed to act or how a man truly conducts himself.
What example do they have to follow? What men do they have to look up to and admire and patter their life after? Our young men need this. Our small boys need this. Our elders need this. Our young woman need this. Our little girls need this.
Are there any men out there? If so, please join our few, protect our camp, teach our youth and children, listen and learn from our Elders, accept what Grandfather bestows on you and remember our teachings. What you need will come. What you desire will be bestowed, if deserved. What you accomplish will be seen by all without puffing of chest, strutting, demanind, cursing or acting like children. Consider that maybe if it did not come, it was not meant to be.
I got this out of a Native American Newsletter, several years back, it still stands true, when you turn on the nightly news, and governors, senators, and people in the public eye are whining, crying because they were wronged, when in actuality it is their actions that brought on the wrongs.
We have service men fighting, defending and wishing they were home to enjoy their families… the brave, the warriors…
Lead by example, teach and be taught, and put your big boy pants on!
Stir Your Creative Juices
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Inspiration that has grown wings - that’s how I view Danny from Guitar Players Center
I’ve gotten to know Danny through our passion for Stevie’s Music.
One of the most unique traits about him is his dedication.
We all have angels that sit on our shoulders, and I did this drawing of Danny with two of his musical angels, because I believe that somewhere in a cosmic way, Danny had to have crossed paths with the essense of Stevie & Jimi.
Somehow these two immortalized musicians feed his ability and he continue’s to write and help others that have not obtained the level of knowledge on guitar repair and playing.
Finding something that feeds our ability and stirs the our creative juices is a healthy way of living. Living for what and who we love is lacking in our society, that was pretty evident last night as I flipped channels and the only thing on were reality shows, when in reality, they are not reality at all.
People striving to be like the so called “reality stars” when in real life there are so many people that we could idolize much easier and with greater returns of self improvement.
A strong backbone in Danny’s life are his parents, oddly enough my parents are as well to me. As grown adults we can still learn from our parents. My parents apparently have done something right, they raised 4 kids, all of us married, to our first and only spouse…. my parents will celebrate their 57th wedding anniversary in May.
That reality creates a strong bond - dedication to family and to keeping the basics on track. The Bachelor or The Bachelorette - who really thinks this can make for a strong marriage?
The Garden of Song
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There’s a garden somewhere way up high
No one can see with a naked eye
The garden of notes, The garden of song…
Where so many blues player, are playing along
Close your eyes Can you hear them sing?
Can you hear them play? You to can hear this band today…
Follow their lead follow their creed
It’s here on this earth, where there is a need
Waking to the news of saddening decline
Within that moment, Life’s defined?
Close your eyes Can you hear them sing?
Can you hear them play? Filling the world with sound today
With conviction
Those famous few
Gave their passion’s
To me & you
Many of which
Their worlds were worse
They spread the word
Through song & verse
Close your eyes
Can you hear them sing?
Can you hear them play?
Find some joy in music today!
Going to Bat
Posted by: | Comments“Going to Bat” for others and having an appreciation for what’s going on with others around us. In the last year, I left a good paying job, lost two close friends and one of my other friends is battling cancer, which is all to familiar, loosing my best friend five years ago to cancer was a time in my life that as I sat and told my husband, “I’ve got it all together” he looked at me quizzically and said,
“Really?”
“Than why is the money from your wallet under the kitchen table, and your shirt is not only inside out, but on backwards?” (I’ll explain my theory on that at the end)
We find our lives intertwining with people daily, but do we take the time to go to bat for them when needed, or just be an added support system in a volatile world? Many do, most don’t, but the emotional surge that happens when someone does, is UNREAL. My boss/partner & mentor recently did that for me, he went to bat for me because he saw the value that I added.
Do you take the time to see the value in people around you, not only professionally, but personally too? If not, you should question yourself . Each and every one of us out there knows someone who has been effected by the decline in the economy, if someone you know has been laid off, have you given them a call? Just to say you are sorry or you’ll keep your ears peeled? If you haven’t - shame on you! (I know a few that have been long standing friends, that have just forgotten now that times are tough)
Friends, are someone you should be able to rely on no matter what situation they find themselves in, with the good comes the bad, and sometimes all we need to hear is a friendly voice, a short email or even a small little card in the mail. What has happened that would make our society so callous to reaching out and going to bat for one another?
This is next paragraph is not meant to toot my own horn - but to explain how I view people’s needs and how a moment in time can help someone…
My shirt being on backwards and inside out was because, I stepped up to the plate, for someone who didn’t have anyone else, my friend was alone, her family members seemed to be “too busy” and she was dying, she couldn’t even warm up soup on her stove. I stepped out of my life and let her life become mine for a short moment in time..
A time if I could change to have her here, I would, a time if I could change at helping a friend, I would not have done anything different.
The photo you see here, is one that took me months to acquire, this is ancient history, happening five years ago, but it’s like yesterday to me, and will forever be ingrained in my DNA - we shared a passion for Chicago Bears Football, and I wanted to do something for her to make her smile.
I contacted several people that may be able to get me an autographed photo of Dan Hampton, her favorite Bear, and Richard Roeper stepped up to the plate and did what he could to make it happen.. for a stranger. Dan Hampton went well beyond anyone’s call of duty for a stranger with not only this picture and an autographed ticket to opening day at the New Soldier’s Field but with a personal phone call to Diane - her eyes lit up like saucers, and that’s a memory that’s tattooed in my mind’s eye.
Step up to the plate for someone in need, give thanks for those around you!
Soul to Soul - Happy Thanksgiving
~ Susie
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